How Sweet it Was

It is possible to plan the “perfect” day. Every now and then, however, we luck out and the perfect day happens by chance. This kind of day seems even sweeter than a planned “perfect” day – probably because it is so unexpected and effortless. I had this kind of day on Mother’s Day, May 8th.

Before you get ahead of the story, it is important to note I’m not a mother. So wipe out that vision of a pleased mom surrounded by her brood of well-behaved children.  I certainly have a mother and spent time with her the day before Mother’s Day but this year's Mother’s Day was more about sun and being on the water.  It was a beautiful day to try out several kayaks as I contemplated this big purchase.

EMS (Eastern Mountain Sports) held an event at Lum’s Pond State Park in Bear, Delaware for people to evaluate different kayaks. There was a good turn-out as folks test paddled about 25 different boats. But even before I got in a boat, my interest about the state park was piqued. This park, only about an hour (or less, depending on traffic) from Philadelphia, offers boat rentals, camping, and swimming. I’m thinking I’ll camp there in the Fall when I can paddle during the day and sit by a campfire at night. (I should add…I will paddle in my own kayak as a purchase – including a rack for transporting – was made.)

After spending a few hours learning about paddles and trying different boats, my partner, friend and I were ravenous. We didn’t want fast food but weren’t sure where to go. We relied on the GPS. It told us there was a restaurant just minutes away with “Waterside” (or something like that) in the name. Excited about the prospect of eating on the water, we decided to try it.

The GPS led us to a marina in Bear, Delaware. The restaurant name provided by the GPS was no longer accurate by we were taken to Aqua Sol.  Now remember, this was Mother’s Day, and we were dressed in kayaking clothing. I wondered if this was going to be a factor as I walked up to the attractive building with outdoor seating, including big umbrellas, overlooking the water.

I asked the hostess – very loudly since the jazz band was right near the hostess stand – if the way we were dressed was a problem. She said it wasn’t and, even though I felt a bit awkward as I looked at the nicely dressed diners dressed for the holiday, I decided this restful, sunny location was too good to give up. We were seated and decided to have a drink as we waited about 1 hour for the Mother’s Day brunch to end. (We didn’t want a repeat of the breakfast we had that morning at our local diner.)

Waiting to dine at Aqua Sol wasn't a problem.  The restaurant is a smile-maker.  It is such a pleasure to look down on the boats – some of which were huge yachts – in the marina. We could also see what we later learned was the old Summit Bridge spanning the C and D canal.

As for the food, we were able to choose between "Miami inspired" (Latino influenced) light fare as well as more serious dishes.  Since it was 4pm-ish, we had the lighter fare. Two of us had the slow-roast pork tacos and the other had the ancho rubbed short ribs. And no need to worry about prices here. I anticipated having to pay a premium for the view, and the jazz band, but that proved to be an unwarranted concern.

I left my credit card at the restaurant and had to return a few days later to get it. While this sounds like a drag, and they would have sent it to me, I actually enjoyed returning to the restaurant. As I drove into the marina , there were many more workers than there were on Sunday. The workers were readying the big boats – washing and waxing and inspecting. I paused near the dining area of the restaurant (no one was there at 3pm on a week day) and absorbed the view again.

The day was similar to the day I dined there. The sun was warm and I snuck out of work early to head south on I-95 to get my card. I felt like I was on vacation, just as I had on Mother’s Day. I was transported back to that “perfect day,” even as I headed back on the road to pick up the kayak at EMS. 

Weeks later, I'm am still happy to think about that day.  And I'm also thinking the kayak will provide me with many more perfect days.

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Lums Pond Boat Rental Rates - 2010 (2011 rates not yet on the web site)
1/2 Hour Rentals
Pedal Boat  $6

1 Hour Rentals

• Rowboat $7
• Canoe $8
• Pedal Boat $10
• Kayak - Single $9, Tandem $11
• Sailboat $14

 Day Rentals

• Rowboat $35
• Canoe $40 
• Pedal Boat $50
• Kayak -Single $45, Tandem $55
• Sailboat $70